Fairfax Child Custody & Visitation Attorneys

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Fairfax County Child Custody & Visitation

Custody Matters in Fairfax County

Few legal matters are as personal as child custody. Whether you are separating, divorcing or seeking to change an existing order, our family law attorneys help Fairfax parents understand their options and pursue arrangements that serve their children.

Custody and visitation cases in Fairfax are typically heard in the Fairfax County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court, or in the Circuit Court as part of a divorce.

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How Virginia Courts Decide Custody

Virginia courts decide custody based on the best interests of the child. Judges consider factors such as:

Parent–Child Relationship

Each parent’s relationship with the child and role in the child’s upbringing.

The Child’s Needs

The child’s age, needs and physical and mental condition.

Co-Parenting

Each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent.

The Child’s Preference

The child’s reasonable preference, depending on age and maturity.

Safety

Any history of family abuse.

Custody Services We Provide

Legal & physical custody (joint and sole)
Visitation & parenting-time schedules
Modification of existing orders
Custody issues in divorce
Relocation disputes
Enforcement of custody orders
Child support
Protective orders
Mediation & parenting agreements
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Our Approach

We aim to resolve custody matters through negotiation or mediation where possible, because agreements are often less costly and less stressful for children. When agreement is not possible, we prepare thoroughly for court.

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Your Fairfax Custody Team

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Robert Fredericks, Partner, Tate Bywater

Robert Fredericks

Partner

Robert has practiced for more than 40 years. He mediates, arbitrates and litigates complex, high-conflict custody and equitable distribution cases in Northern Virginia courts and has served as a motions conciliator for the Fairfax Circuit Court.

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Caitlin Higgins, Partner, Tate Bywater

Caitlin Higgins

Partner

Caitlin focuses on domestic relations, including divorce and custody. She is a member of the Fairfax Bar Association and was selected for Super Lawyers Rising Stars (2018–2022).

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Paul Mickelsen, Managing Partner, Tate Bywater

Paul Mickelsen

Managing Partner

Paul's practice includes domestic relations alongside criminal defense and civil litigation. He is licensed in Virginia, Maryland and D.C. and speaks fluent Spanish and conversational Portuguese.

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Why Clients Choose Tate Bywater

✓ Serving Northern Virginia since 1972
✓ Office on Chain Bridge Road in Vienna
✓ Spanish-speaking attorneys and staff
✓ Direct communication with your attorney

Fairfax Custody FAQs

Does Virginia favor mothers in custody cases?

No. Virginia law does not presume that either parent is entitled to custody. The court focuses on the best interests of the child.

At what age can my child choose where to live?

There is no set age in Virginia. A child’s reasonable preference is one factor the court considers, and the weight it receives depends on the child’s age and maturity.

Can a custody order be changed?

Yes. A court can modify custody or visitation when there has been a material change in circumstances and the change is in the child’s best interests.

What is the difference between legal and physical custody?

Legal custody concerns decision-making for the child, such as education and medical care. Physical custody concerns where the child primarily lives.

Do we have to go to court?

Not always. Many parents reach agreements through negotiation or mediation, which the court can then enter as an order.

Talk with a Fairfax custody attorney.

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The information on this page is general information and is not legal advice. Contacting us does not create an attorney-client relationship. Past results do not guarantee a similar outcome. Every case is different.